Realistic Relationship

most of the people expects to have a good relationship with others

a husband expect to have a good understanding with his wife..

a woman always expect her boyfriend to love her.

a son always says :" my dad always care for me. He always love me."

But i have to say that those kind of relationship is unrealistic..

no matter how good people to you, how loving your wife to you, how care your parents to you, at some point, most likely, they will disappoint you. They will hurts your feeling.

unfortunately, when they makes some mistakes, we responded wrongly.

we tends to avoid them ,treat them like they irritates you..

and we focusing on their mistakes and weaknesses.

you have to give them a room to make a mistake. You have to give them a grace to be a human. They are not perfect, yet they did many mistakes.

I want to encourage you to overlook their weaknesses. Learn to look on their positive sides.. try that to your best friend that hurt you or your girlfriend that hurts your feelings, and you'll find a thousand positive sides of them and just a few negative sides.

I know sometimes is irritating..

Try to ask God to give you strength and patience in your relationship.

you always needs to involves God into your relationship.